Vaginal
fisting (or fist-fucking), means inserting one entire
hand into the
vagina.
This - if done correctly - will usually result in a
very violent
orgasm,
often combined with female ejaculation. The fisting is
usually done
by the
partner but occasionally women do it themselves.
The nonsense
Regardless what others may tell you, fisting - when
done
correctly - is not
dangerous. Many men are afraid their hands will be
too big. This can be the
case, but usually it is not. And: you don't have to
have a baby first before
you can be fisted, although there are some differences
between women who have
had a baby and those who haven't. many women
who have had children (and those
who haven't) fear they will experience a pain like
that of childbirth.
The pain
(to a very large extent) during childbirth is caused
by 2 events.
The first being the passing of the child thru the
opening of the uterus. This
is meant
to be closed. Contractions are the bodies way of
forcing the child
thru
this opening. The second cause is the shoulders
passing thru both the
uterus
and the vaginal opening. Note..... not many fists are
the size of a
newborn
child's shoulders.
The objective
The
objective is to create a very satisfactory orgasm that
has
some
"similarities" to giving birth. Vaginal contractions
will be much stronger
and the
orgasm cannot be compared to any other. This is due to
the vagina is
"filled"
entirely and stimulated everywhere - especially the
G-spot, the
uterus
and the bottom of the vagina simultaneously.
Technical preparations
What you
need is lots of lubricant - it usually helps to have
either a
dispenser or a small bowl available. I prefer a
lubricant called Astroglide.
You may want to warm the lubricant by placing it in a
pan of warm water
first.
The cold lubricant at the wrong moment could have
contracting Vs
expanding reactions.
Also.....always us a waterbased lubricant. The main
reason being
that the
vagina will naturally dissolve or expel water based.
The other reasons are
infections from products such as Vasoline and not to
be over looked.... A non water
based
lubricant can destroy
a condom.
You will
also want to have latex gloves available if you are in
the least bit
in doubt of your partners sexual history. All it takes
for HIV to be
transmitted is a small cut and a small amount of
blood.
Lastly,
make sure your nails are clipped and that you have
washed your hands
thoroughly with an antiseptic soap.
Emotional preparations
Be aware
that this may be an emotional barrier for your partner
and talk
about it before you even attempt to do it. No consent?
Forget
it. It won't
work. Remember that the vagina is the most precious
female organ designed for
other purposes and women are usually very protective
about it, for obvious
reasons.
Next:
it's good to know (if fisting is new to you) that the
effect is intensely emotional and that after care
(always extremely
important) is
paramount in this case.
Once you
and your partner have decided this is something you
want to
do there
are 2 ways to initiate it. The first is to tell them
when the time has
arrived
and you want to try. This will either have a very
erotic effect on
them or
scare the shit outta them.
The
other is to just proceed with the technique (consent
has
already
been
given, but the timing not known) and let them go with
the flow and perhaps
lessen
their anxiety.
In
either case don't just go from undressing to fisting.
Take your time and
remember that foreplay is as important in this as in
any other sexual
activity.
Technique
Fisting
takes time and patience. Remember that the vagina has
some
very
obvious defense systems. If you go too quick, the
muscles will cramp in
defense and you won't get anywhere. With your palm UP,
insert one finger,
moving
it in and out in a fucking motion and WAIT until
sufficient room
exists
for the next finger and so on. Once you have three
fingers in, it
usually
helps to use your thumb, or mouth, to stimulate the
clitoris as well.
Use lots
and lots of lubricant. Not only will it make
penetration easier,
feeling extremely wet will also increase your
partners' lust. Make sure you
have
lubricated the interior wall of the vaginal entrance
and also the lips
fully.
Once you
are able to get four fingers in, you are close but now
you need to
take extra time. Stimulate the G-spot and the clitoris
at the same time. WAIT
until
the vagina starts to "absorb" your fingers (you can
feel that). It is
now you
want to take a second and push the vaginal lips off
your hand and to
push the
clitoris up and away from your hand. By moving the
lips you are
making
sure
you are not trying to fold them into the vagina and by
moving the clitoris back you are making sure it is not
inadvertently trapped between
your hand and the pelvic bones.
Now
begin to slowly twist your hand from palm up to the
palm being vertical.
The muscles in the front pelvic area are much
stronger and need to be
stretched and relaxed. Keep this motion up until you
can make the twist with
little or no resistance. Remember to reapply lubricant
if necessary (without
removing
your fingers).
Next
withdraw a slight bit and lay your thumb alongside
your
middle
finger,
form an arrow and very carefully push without
applying force. Continue
twisting your hand from palm up to vertical.
Suddenly when the frontal
muscles relax and enough lubricant (natural and/or
Astroglide) you will feel
a giving
away. It is now you twist your hand so that your palm
is down and
your
thumb is folded into your palm. You should at this
point be at, or just
beyond
the knuckles of your hand.
The
widest part is now in the entrance of the vagina. Now,
in one fluid
motion curl your fingers into your palm encasing your
thumb and push. With
very
little effort you will discover the vagina gripping
your wrist. You are
fully
in. It is not unusual for orgasm to occur now.
It is
now you want to begin a very slight in and out motion.
Many enjoy a
slight twisting motion also. This is stimulating the
uterus, vaginal walls, G
spot and
urethra. You will most likely feel a series of
contractions, growing
more
intense in 3-5 waves. DO NOT ATTEMPT TO DO ANYTHING.
Just let them
happen.
If your partner moves (most likely will) adjust your
body and hand to
theirs.
Let them lead the way in position.
Once the
orgasm and perhaps contractions have subsided begin a
very slow and
slight rocking motion in and out, and the same degree
of twisting motion.
This is
a very calming and is when a strong emotional
connection occurs.
Do not
leave your fist inserted too long as natural
lubrication tends to stop
or slow down after orgasm. Remember....ya gotta get
out. Slowly pull back
until
the base of your fist is firmly against the vaginal
opening. Slowly
uncurl
your fingers and move your thumb
to the straight up position. Now,
rocking in and out in a gentle fucking motion pull
further out each time.
Once the
knuckles of your hand have exited you can remove your
fingers at
will.
Whew...... cuddle up and relax. You and your partner
have most likely just
experienced the most incredible sexual act ever.
